Personal: The Polite Troll

We see these quite often, don't like to swear and claim the high ground by calling everyone a troll whom use some form of language.

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I've sworn plenty of times so I guess I'm a troll.   Is this the new terms for emotional non robot human beings who never make mistakes or react to life?   We are not machines.  We are not at liberty to hide our emotions and ignore our mistakes.  We can't hide from our successes or failures.  We are not machines.

Throughout history we have constantly had scientists, faith believers and even phyilosophus tell us we are human beings.  Tell us that unlike machines we have a choice, a self-awareness,  We can react badly or positively.  Even the most wisest people can react emotionally; again we are not machines.

So I'm going to talk about the new polite trolls.  They will carefully word their articles to bash very calmly the people who don't agree with them.   They often use quite big words to show how intellectual they are yet they seem to be lacking humanity in their approach.  Humanity is all sides of the pyramid. Not just one side of a coin - we are human beings.

They often act like we should calmly listen and also take it up the tailpipe that their opinion is fact.  A troll is a simple thing: someone that posts not to debate in anyway but to gain a reaction.  That's not someone who necessarily swears or ridicules.  I know I'm far from perfect and some of my posts can come across as a little whiny or angry.  Let's face it I am human and we all are. That's a fact with zero argument.

We see trolls often, they are the ones who will ridicule a disabled child behind a hidden profile.  They will tell someone to go commit suicide just because they dyed their hair.  They are not the ones who throw an emotional response or disagree with you.  Call it what you will, they are not trolls.

So next time you call someone a troll. Are you actually being the mature grown up one ? I don't think you are.  You're just simply sitting on a high horse and by constantly throwing the insult of troll you've become the very thing you claim to be against.  So congratulations. If you call someone a troll to gain a reaction.  That's just the same as a....   you got it TROLL.

This isn't actually about the "Polite Troll", I don't think these people are trolls at all.  There's only one type of troll and I've already described him.  You can word your tweets and the blogs in pages of fancy writing but it doesn't change what a troll is.  Otherwise you may find that we are all trolls.  Would you say a war hero is a troll because when I grew up I had a few nasty words shouted in my ear because of a German on TV.  So a man who was in WW2 swearing in real life not on Twitter is he a troll? No course not.  It's an emotional outburst, it was human.

What about the protests? Education ?

Are we calling angry protestors trolls? often they call out to angry politicians This message is intended solely for the named recipient(s). If you are not the intended recipient(s), you are notified that disclosing, copying, distributing or taking any action in reliance on the contents of this information is strictly prohibited.

What about the miner strikes? Are we calling them trolls after seeing their jobs and lively hoods torn to pieces with little to no notice.

Some trolls are  a bit like bullies but so are those who call out the trolls>  They claim they are interested in debates while they tell you politely you're wrong, they tell you they value your opinion while they tell you you're blocked, they tell you not to use language while calling you a troll.  As far as I am concerned calling someone a troll is also an emotional response similar to using the word jerk or you berk.

What's the difference between calling someone a jerk to a troll? Nothing, both are insults and if both hurt your feelings perhaps you need to grow a back bone because life is not going to protect your feelings.  If you find yourself easily insulted perhaps that's not society you need to look at but yourself.  I can speak from experience on this one; I learnt to have a backbone and to stand up for myself while others did nothing to help.

We've all had to deal with bullies at some stage and people who call out trolls are not much different.  There's those bullies who are actually intelligent, they know when to push you, what to say and when to randomly come right for you.  They push when no one is looking, say snarky comments while no one heard it and they know exactly what to say to get to you.  They are also like footballers when fouled, when you finally push back they roll over crying in pain as if you've just broken their leg when all you've done is one single nudge.  These people who call out trolls are no different,  You can't sit there calling people trolls all day and act like you are innocent. 

Perhaps you grew up always being baby cuddled by your mother, perhaps you was a spoilt child - who knows.  Hypocrite.

They can dish it for England but they have no backbone, hiding behind Twitter and social media.  The kind of person that won't ever be married unless he was lucky enough to find someone very like him.

We all know that person.  Can tell other people they are poor at their jobs but struggles to hear it back.  Hypocrite.

So next time you use the word troll; try and remember that they are one kind and only one.  They will tear your posts apart looking for anything they can get a reaction out of, even when they lose a debate they will revert to other subjects but their main focus will be one thing - to get a reaction.  They are not the ones who have emotional outbursts.  There's no such thing as the polite troll either, they are just simple people calling others trolls just to get one thing - a reaction.  So although I've named this post The Polite Troll - they are not real.  You are just an emotional human being responding.

Education: Snobbery of Teachers over Support Staff

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That tweet, that post on EduGeek, it’s important… actually very important to note that this is not every teacher.  It actually took me a while to think of a heading late on an evening.

It is however sad to say that many including myself have been on the receiving end of that type of a teacher.  Which goes to show one thing – it’s much more wide spread than people are willing to admit.

What was the post: 

Twitter link here: TWITTER LINK

In short “You’re support staff, I talk to you how I like”.  This is beyond disgusting attitude and this person is an educator of our children, our youth and our future.  We often question the attitude of young people and I have to ask not only are Parents who raise them and the home life responsible for what they become but so are teachers.  I speak from personal experience that some teachers have poor attitudes towards support staff.  That we are here to do their bidding (no we’re not) to do what they want regardless (no we’re not) and to work 24/7 (no we’re not).

The hardest thing is there are too many factors that prevent anything being done about this:

·         People not prepared to report it or make it an official complaint

·         Fear of losing a job

·         Fear of causing problems

·         Leadership who don’t care or worse also treat support staff poorly

This entire thing reminds me of the issues surrounding discrimination on pay based on gender/race.  It’s yet another society issue that doesn’t get resolved.

I’ve often been contacted over a weekend, out of hours and even had one member staff tell another that “should be here till late fixing that server” when in fact I was doing it remotely at home.  Not to mention that we was awaiting a specific part to be delivered that I physically couldn’t jump in a car and collect.  The sad truth is no one pulled that teacher aside to correct her.  In fact only in recent years have staff been pulled aside to be corrected minus one incident from a particular Assistant Head Teacher – who I had to report to a Deputy Head.

Fact is they are allowed to get away with it.  Just like how some Head Teachers will not blame Teachers for lack of grades or poor Ofsted inspections.  I’m a head of IT and I tell you now I am responsible if IT fails on a daily basis.  If it’s out of my power I am not afraid to say it nor am I afraid to say – “Sorry our mistake”.  Teachers seem to struggle a grasp of their own responsibility.

You look at Twitter, I had tweeted this heavily in 24 hours but I have to say.. not one single response.. not one.  It’s strange I can tweet about a piece of IT no matter how small I get a few responses, likes and retweets.  This time around I’ve published this incident several times and not one response.  Another issue – denial.  No one is willing to say anything and are sheer hush hush.

Luckily enough after a few days I got responses of support and I praise you.  I praise you for retweeting it and standing up for what's right.  YOU deserve a pat on the back for not only being a decent person but being a decent worker in education.

The sad truth is a lot of ex-students/young people join IT and are not brave enough to stand up for their rights.  They don’t join a union, don’t log and record everything.  It’s really sad that they have to be given this kind of advice by outside people.  Again the ‘teachers’ are quiet even on the EduGeek forum.  Some over the years have had to state they try hard to resolve these issues – but do you try hard enough? Frankly I don’t think so.  Some would claim there’s always something the IT person can do…..  There's also a lack of support at times and training for those young people.  Working in education can be a mouthful where you are expected to be a professional all day every day when you're a fresher.  You've only just finished education and here you are on the other side - a staff member.  If you are young working in English or Maths you instantly are surrounded by people who want to best in your department.  You have 10 people supporting you and those above understand exactly what you do.  Let's face it - no one outside of IT Support fully understand what we do.  So again IT end up with little pats on the back.

These teacher unions who claim to be fighting for the future of our country are very quick to protest against the government on how underappreciated they are.  How low their income is and the lack of respect from everyone outside of education.  Funny how that entire statement can be thrown back in those teacher faces with nothing done about it.  No repercussions.  Ask your self this question:  How many teachers have been disciplined as result of unprofessional conduct towards support staff?  Compared to the other way around.

I’ve stated this before that teachers need people like us on their side, we are parents, tax payers and voters.  We are every day people who need to give you teachers our backing.  You do have difficult jobs but again you’re digging your own holes without any care.

If you’re a teacher reading this; I do apologise on how harsh some of this comes over.  I’ve often fallen out with IT staff who are disrespectful towards teachers or think they are equal to Deputy Head’s– which I find utterly ridiculous.  Remember we are support staff; rightly so we’re not as important compared to teachers but we are professionals, we are here to serve a purpose and do a job.  If IT fails you will be the first and last ones to complain even when things are working you will question what we do daily until things go pear shaped.  You are under pressure like us to perform crucial daily routines.  Yours will be getting kids through an education and ours will be allowing you to perform that job without problems.  It absolutely sickens me that when I left School I had an impression of teachers that I didn’t think would ever change.  I highly respected them for being so patient for us children that no matter what; they would teach us, they would push us forward for our benefit.   

Sadly that impression fast vanished when I started working in education with teachers.  I even worked with a few some years later and their attitude was quite different – they had to work with me.  When my job changed to support staff that respect fast disappeared and the poor attitude came out.  I remember joining a job and sat down while a handful of staff tore in to IT Support.  Even though they spent all day every day fire fighting and doing tasks that they shouldn't have been doing (at the request of teachers and SLT) they were being criticised heavily.  The IT system it self was failing, old and slow.  There was no budget being provided (at a time when Schools had plenty to spend) so we had no time, no money and under staff yet it was their fault.

If you expect students to respect you, everyone should expect you to do the same to other adults.  Some of us choose to stay in education instead of going off to high salary jobs in business.  I’ve been offered a high salary but I enjoy my position and my happiness at times is more important than a salary.  The real sad part of this story is that I can completely relate to it.  I’ve often been sworn at (yes F words) because things didn’t work.  Was I responsible at the time for the budget? No, Was I responsible for the decisions to let qualified IT staff go? No.  Instead I was a technician with a job description of day to day simple tasks.  Similar to a teaching assistant who is not responsible for lesson planning or marking.

To be fair I don’t see anything changing.  Just like how the Government treats teachers and education.  That you can always do better, do more and do it with less money.

Treat others on how you expect to be treated.  The first time I heard that was from my grandfather not long before he passed away and the second person to tell it to me was a teacher.